You may be asking if a massage have to hurt to do any good and my answer is certainly not, but a good massage may bring your attention to areas of your body that do hurt or ache already. Massages should feel good to you and help you to let go of tension in your body.

If you are wondering which pressure you should ask for, you may need to experience a few massages to know what suits you best. As a general rule, levels of pressure are classified as light, moderate, firm and deep pressure. For your first massage, it’s a good idea to start out with moderate pressure and graduate to firm pressure, if you find that your tissue does not feel quite engaged enough by moderate pressure.

What is the difference in effects between the different levels of pressure?

Pressure refers to the amount of weight your therapist puts into the massage or how heavy-handed the massage is.

Light Pressure – increases circulation and pacifies the nerves. For people who bruise easily, have thinning skin or high levels of sensitivity to touch, light pressure is ideal. Approximately 15% of massage recipients do best with light pressure. If you get a light pressure massage and find that you are not quite letting go of tension, you probably need to go up a level in pressure.

 Moderate Pressure – is the next level up from light pressure. It involves more engaging massage strokes that knead and lift the muscles. About 30% of massage clients find moderate pressure to be ideal. Many people need a minimum of moderate pressure in order to feel that the massage is productive and truly releasing tension. It is just enough pressure to begin to loosen knots without being challenging for sensitive body types.

Firm Pressure – It takes a nice firm massage to get a very wound up “type A” personality to stop thinking and planning their to do list during their massage. Firm pressure is good for people with dense muscle tissue, chronic tension, a racing mind, an athletic body type or people who really want to flush their system out during the massage.

Deep Pressure – is often requested, but not always the best fit. About 20% of the population are ideal candidates for it. Because tensing up against the pressure and resisting the massage is counterproductive for the muscles and nerves, deep pressure is best for experienced massage clients who know how to breathe into painful areas of the body and work with the flow of the massage to truly let go of their knots and chronic pain. It’s great for people who are committed to working through areas of chronic tension, deep pain or old injuries.

Why do people say that a good deep tissue massage actually “hurts good”?

A ghost pain or referred pain that releases the pressure, tension and pain in an area of your body, actually feels good and hurts a little at the same time. It’s hard to describe, but those who have experienced this will be nodding their heads.There’s an amazing feeling of letting go that accompanies the “good hurt”, so to speak. Aggravating pain, however,causes your body to tense up and to resist the pressure or to fight the massage. Deep tissue massage aims to unwind and release the deeper layers of muscle and fascia in your body. It can be intense, but should not be torture. Aggravating massage inflicted pain is counterproductive.If you pay attention, you can feel the difference between the two.

Is it strange that some areas of my body are more sensitive and tender than others?

That is actually very common. Many people enjoy more pressure on their back massage than their legs or vice versa. Shoulders can often take more pressure than low back muscles. Feet can often take more pressure on the soles than the tops and the list goes on. Inform your massage therapist of areas that need more or less pressure than the rest.

Somehow there is an appropriate level of pain involved in the healing and releasing process. It’s not easy to find the right language to have this make sense on paper. However, once you find a massage therapist that is a good fit for you there are both verbal and non-verbal cues between the two of you that will allow the healing process to unfold like magic.

Signature Gay Massage is a great resource for you. I’d love to guide you in your quest for just the right service. Please call or text at +44 7931 505 809 to unwind atSignature Gay Massage




The keyword “M4M Massage” conjure all sorts of images – some more boiling than others. It’s a loaded keyword, certainly, but not necessarily in a negative sense.

Everyone has his own definition when it comes to Sensual Gay Massage or M4M Massage, so it is left open to the male masseur to give his own interpretation of what M4M Massage encompass.

For me a Sensual Gay Massage / M4M Massage is generally given as a full body therapy and combines traditional therapeutic massage with sensual arousal techniques that usually includes genital massage which may lead to orgasm. It is a massage that does not attempt to ignore sexual arousal but actively embraces it as the natural process that it is. The best M4M Massage should always be given to the whole body and as well as incorporate the effleurage and kneading techniques of traditional therapeutic massage. It will also include targeted arousal procedures thus creating an ebb and flow of erotic arousal and relaxation.

Erotic Gay Massage doesn’t have to be tainted with malice and should be given a chance to be seen as a regular physical therapy. Sensual Massage is, by definition, an extremely intimate act. Particularly when both the client and the masseur are gay, the massage can easily have sexual undertones. But a M4M Massage can also just be a therapeutic massage.

In a Male to Male Massage it’s very important the communication between the client and the male masseur. In other words, the clients can communicate what they desire from a massage, and the masseur can relay back what kind of massages they do, so the client knows exactly to expect from the gay massage.

On my Gay Massage Services page you will find different kinds of M4M Massage available in London and the purpose of all is to provide the customer with an experience where they are able to remain unconcerned as to how their body reacts to the touch and that the feeling of arousal is normal.

Different stroke in a therapy style are applied not just to stimulate libido, but to many health benefits as well. Massage helps the muscles and bones strong and healthy plus it can help refresh the mind during and after an erotic gay massage session. Tantric M4M massage also gives energy throughout the body and keeps your senses awake.

These arousal procedures can include very light fingertip touch, use of body-to-body contact, hugging, holding and breathing and more. My Gay Massage London is always given in a warm, caring, seductive environment. As a professional male therapist I emphasise the non judgemental supportive nature of the treatment enabling the “receiver to completely “let go” and experience, as naturally as possible, the bodies primal arousal systems.

As well as the traditional therapeutic techniques the sensual gay massage may include, according to the client’s request the Prostate Massage.

Increasingly Sensual Gay Massage or Male to Male Massage is being sought for those who are exploring their sexuality and wanting to experience sensual intimacy with same sex but in a situation that is without the pressure of expectation to perform or take part in any full sexual activity.


Benefits of M4M Massage:

  • It helps treat premature ejaculation
  • Personal growth
  • Relieves stress
  • Treats anxiety and other psychological problems
  • Regulates the blood flow in the body
  • Relaxes the muscles and builds strength
  • Promotes fertility
  • Good for the heart and other body organs
  • Improves social interactions
  • Strengthens relationship
  • Detoxifies the body
  • A need for sensual intimacy that may be missing from their daily lives
  • Sensual exploration to discover erogenous areas of the body
  • Sexuality exploration
  • Same sex intimacy

Straight men/Bi/Curious seeking Male to Male Erotic Massage

The traditional heterosexual man, who is either married, in relationship or single is becoming aware of the desire to experience sensual intimacy with another man. For some men this feeling can be comfortable and one that they feel happy to explore in their own time. However for many others the first step to M4M intimacy can be at best daunting and at worst a frightening almost incomprehensible thought and yet it is something that they know they want to experience. I’m very experienced with straight and curious and I always managed to make then feel comfortable after few minutes together. I would strongly recommend for first-timers the Tantric Massage or my Signature Massage. Please visit my website for more details

Respect for personal boundaries

The personal boundaries of both client and therapist must always be respected. If there is any aspect of the massage that you feel goes beyond your own personal boundaries then please let me know immediately. Equally if I feel my personal boundaries are being crossed I will indicate this politely and ask you to refrain from what you are doing. If this is not respected I am entitled to terminate the treatment without a refund of the fee.


All treatments are carried out in a clean professional environment and fresh towels and excellent shower facilities are available both before and after the treatment. If you have not showered within 1 hour before arriving for the appointment then you will be expected to take a shower before receiving the massage.

Oils / Shower / Body Wash & More

I use non aromatic therapeutic massage lotion of the highest quality available, organic body-wash, organic scrub, organic aromatherapy oils, clean towels. You are welcome to use deodorant, moisturise, hair products at the end of your session.


There is off street parking.


Massage therapy is not recommended for certain people:

  • People with infectious skin disease, rash, or open wounds
  • Immediately after surgery
  • Immediately after chemotherapy or radiation, unless recommended by your doctor
  • People prone to blood clots as there is a risk of blood clots being dislodged.
  • If you have heart disease, please check with your doctor before having a massage.
  • Massage should not be done directly over bruises, inflamed skin, unhealed wounds, tumours, abdominal hernia, or areas of recent fractures.

Additional massage tips

Don’t eat a heavy meal before the massage. Drink plenty of water after the massage to flush out toxins released during the treatment.

What do I wear during my massage?

The massage is conducted fully nude. There is no need to be shy as I will be fully nude too. Full nudity is not a must though. If you would rather leave your underwear on you are welcome to do so. I can be clothed as well, if this is your preference.

Please visit my Signature Gay Massage’s Gentlemen’s Guide for more TIPS TO FIND THE BEST M4M MASSAGE LONDON HAS TO OFFER.




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The last thing you want is a rushed service, a massage parlour that isn’t interested in putting you first or a massage agency who sends who they want or who they have available instead of the one you chose.

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